Turning 'Disorders' into Success
At about the age of 23 I had been labeled as troubled, compulsive, obsessive, attention-deficit prone to an addictive personality and some even suggested I had a disease. Trust me, I knew I was having problems, but had never considered any of them disorders or diseases. I went for this hook, line and sinker, as I knew something was wrong, I just didn't know what it was. It was clear that I wasn't living up to my potential and these labels seem to fit some of what was going on with me.At the age of 25 I quit the drug thing and it was recommended that I get on prescription drugs to help me handle my "other" problems. Instead of more drugs I took all of the time, energy and misdirection I had been wasting and focused on my career. Almost immediately, I became the top producer where I worked. For the first time in my life I was winning and the more I won the more I wanted to win. Literally the only difference was I took all my restless energy and focused it on one thing- learning my career and my financial stability.
I was working 12+ hour days, when others were working 8. Someone suggested that I had just replaced one addiction/obsession- disorder with another. I couldn't believe it. For the first time in my life I was doing well and was now being told that this too was a problem. Most of the people who I worked with couldn't keep up with my energy so they labeled me with a problem. Who had the problem- why was I getting labeled? The same people that were saying something was wrong with me were either just plain lazy or simply didn't want for much. It hit me that this had been happening since childhood with people always finding something about me that was somehow wrong or bad or deficient. Why aren't the labelers being labeled? Maybe they have the problem and need to be labeled with "under-performance disorder" or "settle for crumbs compulsion" or " gave up on the dream disease"?
I decided in that moment that I would no longer accept the labels of others and use all my energy even if it was a problem to focus on what I wanted. I started reading 2-3 books a week, listening to audio programs daily and learning from highly successful people. All the successful people talked about being 'all-in' on an idea, none of them talked about balance - they were all obsessed with an idea. It made me think, "Is the commitment to do something extraordinary so profound that in order for 'ordinary' people to make sense of the 'extraordinary' they label it something bad?" Also all of these people had an interest in doing something very special as though they were going to leave their imprint or footprint on planet earth.
Once I made these same decisions I quickly reached the top 1% of all sales people in my industry and went on to build three successful businesses. To make things happen you need a lot of drive and an unwavering commitment to do so. In the last 18 months I have written three books (one of which became a NY Times Best Seller), written over 120 articles that have been posted around the world, created a virtual training product and a phone app and still able to make time for my family everyday.
Here are a few steps you may want to take today:
- Quit allowing people to label you- tell them to !@#$- off.
- Take all your creative energy and focus on your purpose.
- Become obsessed with the concept of leaving a footprint on this planet.






